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Disciplining children is one of the most important duties we have. As parents, we are always in control over our children’s behavior, and sometimes it feels like a constant war. Maybe there are cleverer ways. Shouting and sanctions aren’t always necessary, not if we can use games or a kind word and get better results. Here are a few tips on how to do this:

Educational playtime:

There is much that kids can learn while playing together. Like Obeying rules. Taking turns. Waiting patiently. Playing fair. And if you let them — even losing honorably. All those are important disciplinary concepts. So when you play with your children, don’t forget that you are indirectly educating them. Make sure they understand the basic rules of a fair play, and their understanding of sharing and cooperating will lower your shouting levels. Don’t press the discipline button too openly though. Games should be fun and your children shouldn’t feel as if you’re drilling or examining them .

Praise them when they deserve it:

Now, here’s an advice that will always be relevant: always, always, praise your children if they’ve earned it. Make sure they realize that you notice them and are proud of them. You took Little Al downtown and he behaved himself? He deserves your appreciation: “I had a great time with you today, you were wonderful.” Laura replaced the light bulb in the shed? Thank her: “Thank you honey, I really appreciate it”. Never give a praise while you’re busy doing something else, talk to them directly and respectfully. If your children see that you are aware of proper conduct, they will understand that misbehaving is unnecessary.

Be a good role model:

Bear in mind that your own behavior is always the key. Your kids look up to you and imitate you. They will show as much respect toward you as you show toward them. They will be just as courteous to you as you are to them.

Note that discipline is not be achieved by one unique method. It requires a combination of approaches, including, here and there, some negative feedback. Nevertheless, I’m sure that you’d rather use a positive approach whenever you can.

I certainly do.

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